Love Codes Masterclass

On 16 February, I attended the wonderful Love Codes Masterclass with Belinda Bailey - seriously, she is phenomenal - you all need to get on board.

What she spoke about was conflict* in relationships, and how we have this expectation that for our lives to be perfect it needs to be void of conflict. Which isn't true. Just because there are arguments in your relationship - doesn't mean it is doomed.

We just have to know how to deal with the conflict better. Learn the skills to be ok with it, but then also be gracious and kind in how you deal with the conflict.

She has soooo many pearls of wisdom, that I'll try and share with you all over the next while.

One in particular was space. If you find yourself getting frustrated or pissed off - then give the topic some space. Feel the emotion. And then decide if you can let it go, or if it something that is going against your core values and needs to be spoken about.

Too often - women (and me!!) in particular want it to be resolved then and there. Simply put - it ain't good conflict management skills - just like that wasn't good grammar! Hahaha.

If you want to check her out - here is the link: https://belindabailey.com.au/

*I am not referring to conflict that endangers a person and is DV in nature.